Success and failure are between your heart and mind. Knowing how to control them is your ticket. — Have you thought about why you have dreams, goals, and desires in your heart but trying to act to achieve them has been challenging? Have you thought about why you struggle whenever you want to act on your goals and hope for motivation? Have you really thought about it? Perhaps…

And how much of a thinker you are tells how much experience you have about what you write. — Are you a writer? Can you boldly tell the world you’re a writer? What shows that? Is it because of the words you put on paper that makes you think you’re a writer, or it’s the value you bring into people’s lives by your words? Your answers to these questions…

Woe unto the man that goes against society — In a world where conformity is the norm, taking an unconventional path isn’t easy. It takes people with inflexible mental muscles to take such a course and continue relentlessly to the end without quitting. Have you ever tried being unconventional? How was the experience? Was it easy for you? When…

Accepting the fact that you aren’t perfect can lead to perfection. — Accepting your vulnerabilities isn’t something you feel proud of. Because the world has made you believe that you’re doing yourself a disservice by doing so. I get the risk. There’s a chance you’ll lose respect in the eyes of the world, and it’ll have a dent in your image, which…

What’s the essence of staying with something if you’ve outgrown it? — Unless you had everything in your life figured out for you when you were born, you resort to self-help to put your life together, create a plan to take on life, and execute. This is the ultimate reason people come into self-help. I did enter into it because my life…

Add by subtracting — Everybody wants a successful life, but only a few achieve it. Why is it so? What is it that those who accomplish this feat do that most people don’t and end up living miserable lives? I contemplated these questions because I was equally miserable in my life and searching for…

They’re effective today as they were yesterday and will be forever. — Getting everything you want in life is as simple as reciting the English alphabet. But not knowing it, most people find it challenging to do. But those who know it know it’s a skill that requires learning. So they do what they can to learn it. I never knew about…

The things on the outside can affect you only if you allow them. — “Oh my God. The sky is fallen”. “The economy is crashing. There’s inflation again; what are we going to do?” If that sounds a bit like you, it’s evident that the external world controls you too much. Why am I saying that? Yes, some of those things may be happening…

How to shift your identity to succeed. — Changing your life for the better is a full-time job that, without the right tools and strategies, you’d hardly succeed. So many people buy courses and coaching programs daily to help them, yet the result is always the same — less to nothing. If you have been in that space…